Facebook IconInstagram IconTiktok IconLinkedIn iconTwitter Icon
Episode
074

REDDIT REACTS (Gone Wrong?!): The Love/Hate Relationship With Migrant Parents, Asian Expectations & Emotional Abuse

Listen on the following platforms

watch the full video here

EPISODE DESCRIPTION

In this episode of the Level: Asian podcast, we’re back by popular demand for another Reddit Reacts! But once the mics turned on, things didn’t go quite to plan… (who’s cutting onions?)

We begin by reacting to stories from the “Not So Subtle Asian Parent Traits” Subreddit; from blurred boundaries, Asian love languages, financial expectations and more! However, what was meant to be a fun episode, quickly turned into group therapy, as a particular post hit a little too close to home.

This opened a vulnerable conversation, where the crew shared their experiences healing from family trauma, forgiving our parents’ mistakes and appreciating the challenges of the migrant journey.

Don’t forget your tissues, you’ll need them for this one!

Disclaimer:

This episode discusses sensitive topics including abuse. Please listen with care and at your own discretion. If you are in need of support, please reach out to Lifeline: 13 11 14.

SHOW NOTES

00:00 - Intro

03:04 - Reddit Reacts Prompt Explanation

03:43 - #1 Asian Parents: Your Children Are Your Retirement Plan

07:47 - #2 Asian Parents: Demanding to Know Every Detail of Your Life / Lack of Boundaries

09:47 - #3 Asian Parents: Disliking Your Partner

13:05 - #4 Asian Mother’s Love + Strict Asian Dad

16:19 - #5 Asian Dad Showing Love Through Actions

19:42 - Kan’s School Pick Up Story + Where it All Goes Downhill

23:03 - Love/Hate Relationship with Asian Parents

25:56 - The L:A Crew’s Cherished Moments with their Parents

30:27 - #6 Not Being Able to Take Your Asian Parents Out to Eat

33:37 - #7 Is it Common for Your Asian Parents to Not Speak English?

43:47 - #8 Navigating Chaotic Asian Households + Practising Gratitude, Wanting a Sense of Belonging Growing Up

51:07 - #9 Asian Parent Study Expectations: Cheating on a Math Test

54:52 - Learnings from Our Parents

56:23 - Outro

Check Out Our Other Eps: www.levelasianpodcast.com/

Our Merch Store: store.levelasianpodcast.com/

Drop us your email for updates about the show and community we’re building!

Thank you! Your submission has been received!
Oops! Something went wrong while submitting the form.